When I was around eleven years old, I had an epiphany that it did not make sense to have children. Perhaps it made sense in a pre-industrial society, but not in this current time. I was an anti-natalist before I even knew what that the concept was. I thought that it did not make sense to waste a huge chunk of your earnings, just so you can kick your kid out at eighteen, cast them off looking for a McJob, and see nothing come to fruition from your investment. Children, ultimately, are a liability, a money sink. Sure, your child could become a professional sports star or a Hollywood celebrity and make you rich too, but let us be realistic, the chances of that happening are so low that it is simply better to discard the notion completely. I will not take the risk that my potential child could end up at a shitty job as a wage slave and addicted to drugs, which seems all too common lately. Most of the people I come into contact with are stupid automatons, filthy in body (sexually transmitted diseases, tattoos, body modifications) and mind (liberal ideology), who, quite frankly, make me sick of the disgusting resemblance of a society we have today. Because of this, I will starve the beast of any future labor my potential children could have provided to the system.
The “New” World Order and men going their own way
I do not like the term New World Order, because the term makes it seem like it is a new development, but it has existed for a long, long time. It has existed as soon as humans were freed from doing subsistence farming, so that people could produce goods and pay taxes to the government. I have talked to grown, old men that think they can do something about the current order, but I laugh, because they have a wife, a couple kids, a car loan, and a mortgage. In actuality, they are the embodiment of the current order. If you have a wife, you are a slave to your wife’s wishes and you proverbially have a gun to your head. If you have a couple kids, you are a slave for at least eighteen years of your life, plus more, if they want to go to university/college. You can also say goodbye to at least half a million of your hard earned cash for the kids. With a car loan, you are enriching and enslaved by bankers and paying more for the car than it is worth; the same thing for the house. If you cannot readily walk away from anything in your life in thirty seconds flat, you are a slave.
I personally know a man who goes his own way, with over a million dollars in his bank account, a payed off house, and who was retired by his early forties. He never went to post-secondary, either, and worked a blue collar job his whole life. He lives an amazing, stress free life. He told me to never get married when I was in my late adolescence. Many other men that took the plunge, did the whole marriage and kids thing, told me to never get married. I listened and observed, and my gut instincts from my early childhood cemented my worldview today.
I have a complete aversion to having kids. So, I have logically concluded that becoming chaste is the best course of action in order to mitigate the aforementioned risks. This step is very hard for men, because they are driven by hormonal and biological urges to reproduce. This hypersexualization of men is conveyed through the mainstream media, and pornography, which is obviously produced to highlight and augment the primal desires of men, and keep them in a lower state of consciousness.
However, I am not so naive to think that all men can go all out Shaolin monk, quite the contrary. I realize it takes a certain caliber of man to give up intimate relations with women, and it takes a man with a low libido and a certain amount of intelligence to overcome biology. In fact, some of the greatest men to ever live rejected women, such as Arthur Schopenhauer and Sir Isaac Newton, to name a few. To those men who cannot abstain, I recommend The Sixteen Commandments of Poon.
I have also discerned that, today, marriage is also a scam, simply because of common law concerning co-habitation, no-fault divorce, and general women’s behaviors that I have observed throughout my daily life. I cannot simply trust that any future partner I might have may will not purposely decide to get pregnant. Even if I get a vasectomy, my prospective wife could still leave my ass on a whim and I would still have to pay alimony. You do know that you pay alimony for her, not the kids, right?
Western society is garbage
The cold hard truth is that the people having the most children in Western society are mostly the bottom of the rung; I like to call them breeders. Single mothers are included in this group, of course. The single mothers mostly come from already broken homes themselves, they took every man’s dick from around town too many times and ended up with some alpha douche bag’s kid, and do not usually know who the father is. We, as a society, pay taxes for these irresponsible and stupid mothers, who are living off the nanny state’s tit. Like it or not, you are subsidizing women’s shitty behaviors in order to act like harlots, use men as sperm donors, and steal their labor in the form of child support, all thanks to feminist doctrine allowing them to do so. These breeders are churning out the next generation of kids that will be destined to work at McDonalds or worse. Kids raised on a television that will never have a thought of their own. Classless, mindless, fornicating thugs that repeat the cycle over again, like water swishing in a toilet bowl.
Sadly, to me, anyways, most people are stupid dupes, raising the next generation to just be exploited in the workplace, directly into the wood chipper, and possibly forging, at the same time, a path of sadness and despair for your potential child. All that hard work for nothing in return; you cannot even expect that your child will take care of you in your old age, which is the primary reason couples had children in traditional, agrarian societies. I will blow my brains out before I develop Alzheimer’s, then shortly after get shipped off to a retirement home and become forgotten about, sitting alone in a medically induced stupor, numb to the world, where some Filipino lady changes my soiled diaper due to my inability to properly function as a human being. I am sorry, folks, but that is not my definite of a dignified life, or even a life worth living.
On a different note, perhaps we need those breeders, who will create the next generation of proles that will need to scrub our toilets and serve us our fast food. But not me. I owe society fuck all. The commonly held ideas of having kids in order to fulfill one’s legacy, while concurrently fulfilling one’s obligation to society, is passé, and, quite frankly, narcissistic. I will not bust my ass for a child, because I want to guarantee my own wellbeing, and while not having a child is not a surefire way to having a happy, successful life, it is always the safer option.
Today, if you are working or middle-class, it simply does not make financial sense to have kids. Period. I recommend this short podcast by Stefan Molyneux of Freedomain Radio, who puts it more succinctly with his podcast: Why Men Don’t Want to Have Kids.
This is a world of greed, corruption, and exploitation, not a world of daisies and daffodils. Face it and accept it. The best course of action is to not play the game.
My message to not play the game manifests itself in the form of focusing on the individual on the micro-level, without regard to the greater society, because I believe that grand scale change to better society in any way, shape, or form is not possible. My solution is anti-social and bordering on the ideology of ethical egoism, but, then again, Western society is based on that, so why not harness that perspective in order to help yourself? The only thing definite in your life is the fact that you exist, right here, in the now, and the only thing that you should worry about is how you are going to guarantee that you are going to have a comfortable life, with as little pain and hardship as possible. In other words, you need to save yourself at all costs. You should not concern yourself with what you think is your moral responsibility to society, because that is being a follower, not a leader. I care about you, right now, as you are. What are you going to do?
Men going their own way do not comprise a movement, it is an individual act of defiance against the system in the form of a lifestyle and mindset
Men going their own way are getting a lot of flack from mainstream society, due to misunderstanding the concept and what it actually stands for. In actuality, men going their own way are not an organized group, they are all more or less doing the same thing by living on the fringe of society and rejecting mainstream culture and ideals. Men going their own way reject the notion that a man’s worth is solely based on his ability to get women, whereas mainstream society views these men who are opting out of marriage and children as losers, but upon further examination, we can see that this is just a shaming tactic. Men going their own way are shamed due to the tyranny of the majority in our society that are going along with the “program”, so to speak. In other words, it is just society’s confirmation bias of people who have bought into our fraudulent system called Western society. Simply put, it all boils down to social conditioning and repeating the same cultural memes over and over.
The men who went their own way of past’s progeny are not here, they mostly did not reproduce, and their genetics have permanently checked out of the world. Look around you, the people you see are descendants of people who have all reproduced. It is only logical that men who go their own way will be ostracized from the dominant majority. The question you will have to ask yourself is this: will I break the cycle, or will I not question the status-quo and go along with the social script?
And, really, at the end of the day, I wonder if the majority of people in mainstream society practice introspection with regards to these issues, or are they so hive-minded that they just need to have what apparently everyone else wants without questioning anything at all. Personally, I used to emotionally beat myself, simply because I had not been able to land a girlfriend after a couple of years, thinking that I was an incomplete non-person, because I was not having regular intimate sessions with women, subsequently not living up to my full psychological potential and not being as happy as I could be if I were with a woman. I thought that I was lower functioning being because of it, but it is not so. I realized that our hypersexualization of Western culture and allure of the hook-up scene that I strived to become a part of was just a false panacea and cover-up for the true reality of this world. The truth is, is that sex is nothing special; billions of people do it regularly and produce children that are brought into this fucked up world. There is more to this world than sex, it is the lowest common denominator, it is not special or something to really be held in high esteem, because any idiot can stick his dick in a vagina, it is no accomplishment. This is what separates humans from other animals, who just fornicate in concordance with their instincts. Break from your biological shackles, and see reality for what it really is. Take the red pill, so to speak.
This paradigm puts men into two different camps, the animalistic breeders, who are living off of welfare, without a decent job and the means for raising their many kids properly; and the men who go their own way, who realize that having kids may not be the best financial decision, because of the less than inviting, hostile conditions they exist in, especially in the West. Are these people smarter, or more aware of the world around them? You decide.
But, make no doubt about it, the working and middle-class are favored by the breeders, who pump out many more children than people who actually plan for the future and want to live a rational, balanced life. Men who go their own way realize that marriage and the inevitable children that arise from a marriage are a big liability that strangle all the joy out of life, and that the stereotypical lifestyle of a house, wife, and kids subjects him to a life of servitude to the state and to his wife.
It must be mentioned that, again, men who go their way are not a disgruntled group who cannot achieve success with women, those are called involuntary celibates, and they are not included in the scope of this discussion. Men who go their own way see reality for what it is, and they do not play the game that is rigged against them from the start.
Almost all success achieved in this world is for access to women. Women are not exploited creatures, which is why feminism is a big pile of shit; they are the end goal that men strive for, and men put everything on the line for women and their future offspring that they create.
Will you break the cycle, go your own way and define life on your own terms, or are you just going to be a compliant, little slave?
The choice is yours.